Dairy entries -day 1
Fine men are like rich spices, they add flavor in all the right places~ Aina ifeoluwa Priscilla
So I came across a beautiful man on twitter and he is now my wallpaper!
Don’t be silly! of course he didn’t ask me out , he certainly doesn’t know I exist but then as Gen Z would say “being delulu is the solulu”.
Yeah you guessed right, I’m currently stalking him across all social media platforms.
I know he has 3 siblings and I know most of his friend group but I promise I’m not crazy.
I’m not big on having crushes, in fact in my late teenage years I made it a point to always look away from men I consider attractive , I admire them from afar and keep on moving because to what end is drooling over a man that might never be yours ? I’m sure my younger self is shaking her head at the woman I’m becoming because this whole write up is about beautiful men or at least something like that.
Disclaimer: beauty is said to be in the eye of the beholder and for me this is true.
I think one of the most attractive people to me are people with “beautiful minds" and I’m really fascinated by it.
People’s idea of a beautiful mind varies with different individuals but here is mine; Have you ever read a write up or seen a post and you literally just want to know the person whose mind conceived this? Well I have .
I could call myself “sapiosexual” but while I like people that are book smart , I’m more attracted to people’s view of life , their creativity , sense of person and basically how they view the world .
Don’t get me wrong any man on fresh cornrows can have my money any day, may be not any guy but then you get the point.
I really don’t have a physical spec list but I know what attract me and its most definitely not a man who doesn’t want cook or do house chores.
Back to the fine man , I discovered that he is quite smart and also has a very great view of the world in some sense but then what I really like the most is his music, the use of words, how deep his lyrics are and also the way he bodies his art .
Its not everyday I find people who thinks like me and I don’t mean it in an arrogant way but honestly it can be draining because it feels like I have to constantly explain my action or struggle to relate with people .
Taking a deeper look , I honestly don’t think I have a crush on this beautiful man , rather I would like to be his friend and explore what goes on in his mind .
I don’t mind not having his babies and I definitely don’t see our wedding beside the ocean . Not I mind.
I just like him , I really like him. Does this even make sense ? it feels weird writing that down but honestly I don’t know how to explain it .
I know one day I’ll find my community of people and when I do we would be here to share it together but for now I’ll keep showing up and hope this blog leads me to them.
Maybe life leads us to love? Or maybe not
Till next time
Ss(soul sister)
Toddles.
